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Jul 30, 2021, 08:51 AM
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I am so very sorry Miss Laura!
No one will ever love you like your mom did.
But it sounds like you are making all the right moves to discharge your grief, attending the funeral and laying with your mom's body with your sister before her body was removed. This latter brought tears to my eyes.
You are wise to observe all the steps in saying goodbye to your mom. I missed my brother's and mom's funerals due to physical illnesses (it doesn't rain but it pours) and i've always felt i missed an important chance to go thru the rite of passage of saying goodbye.
As said in the live outdoor mobile theater performance "C-O-N-T-A-C-T" touring North America now which you listen to on your ear-buds over your phone while you follow the actors around outside:
"We need witnesses to our pain."
Hugs,
Jane.
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