I walk the dogs, watch opera on youtube or the met opera app, work out, be with friends but I don't talk about whatever is bothering me, cut the grass or get a haircut-both very immediate gratificationy for me, those sorts of things. I don't find comfort from talking about what bothers me and rarely do I find active comfort from other people.
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Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live.
Oscar Wilde
Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich
Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.
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