Hi Scarlet, I’ve read your threads for a while, and I think you have an awesome T (who made a mistake in this instance). I too get stuck at times with a T, and find it hard to move on when something like this happens. I think I always found it hard to move on because I felt that the T placed the blame and responsibility for the rupture on me, and didn’t always apologize. Your awesome T seems to have dealt with this rupture much better than my last T did, as she hasn’t blamed you, and she’s apologised and has given you extra contact. I think I can still identify with your feelings of still being a bit stuck, and feeling less secure over the relationship - if that is how you feel? Is it because simply having had an emotional reaction and a bit of conflict leads to feelings of insecurity? I don’t have any answers.