This makes total sense. I had a real blockage last year I think when a lot of what I was reading was about choosing not to let the past dictate our lives. I just couldn't get my head around it and felt I was being blamed for not making that choice, but to me it really isn't a choice. The past still has such a hold on me that it influences my life in so many ways and I can't just make that go away. Good on those people who can, who, like you say, have reached that place where they can choose. I'm not there yet. Thank you.