There's no children involved and I tend to agree with several of you, for all the reasons you each outlined. I guess the softhearted (perhaps too softhearted) part of me feels like he could ask her about her health from time to time, but I do think that opens the door for them to connect more and more and also emotionally, as @sarahsweets says. We've been separated and are back together, so the last thing I need is for his ex to cause a rift or distance between us and for them to connect on things possibly even having to do with me.

And, I just don't trust her. Asking him to come over twice to fix the TV? Come on... that's very transparent to me. Yes, she could have called a technician. And not just once, but TWICE he had to go over there? I think she has also texted him to wish him a happy Thanksgiving too. To me, this is very disrespectful towards ME, his WIFE and DOES cross the line. Come on.. go get your own man and leave mine alone.

And yes, perhaps he has enjoyed the attention, but he did block her a while ago out of respect for my wishes.

This morning I told him he could unblock her and ask about her health, then I changed my mind and requested that he keep her blocked. I really don't need this added aggravation or third party involved my/our lives.