So Sorry for your Losses! Please Do not give up! Hugs. i am afraid i agree with the other wise and wonderful posters. i think there's not a problem in keeping in touch regarding subjects like her own mental halth but other stuff like the tv i think may be crossing boundaries. Perhaps your husband can simply contact her regarding important stuff and decline to answer if it's about stuff that's not too important. In any case that is up to you both to decide. Love. Stay Safe. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @Have Hope, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!