really. your mom too. i try not to be like my mom. always angry at my kids and all that. but sometimes i have to stop myself because i see my self that way and it scares me....i want my kids to know i love them both the same and be there for the both of them. i care about them the same and love them the same. my mom says she does love her kids and grandkids the same and that my friends is bull....she loves my sister more and love my sister's kids more and care about them more then me and my kids. the things i seen and the people who come up to me and tell me things they seen too..i can tell you things then you will understand how i feel about this...