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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
I’m sorry you had the hurtful experience of learning your husband did that. Is it a site he is still active on or was it from a year ago? Since he told you about it then, it makes me think he didn’t feel he was doing something wrong. Have you confronted him about it yet? Giving him the benefit of the doubt, could he have omitted his marital status and been in a singles group for some other purpose than to cheat?
I completely understand about how you will stay with him regardless because you need him. Good for you for not blowing it up only to hurt yourself and rather being wise and careful about how to proceed.
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He's not publicly active that I can tell but he could be using private messaging and I wouldn't know.
I haven't confronted him. I'm trying to decide if it's worth the trouble. Past experience has taught me he'll minimize it and probably tell me that I'm overreacting.
The singles group usually meet at a bar once a month for the purpose of finding a hookup. I don't know if he's been or not. He doesn't drink.
Thank you. My usual reaction is to just go off.
An interesting side note, his paternal grandfather kept a mistress for 20 years and left her an inheritance when he died. His father cheated on his mother frequently, by his own admission. Then my husband married his high school sweetheart and he told me they cheated on each other. So why on earth was I naive enough to believe he wouldn't cheat on me.
