So Sorry you're going through this! Please Do not give up! i agree with the other wise and wonderful posters that the difference may be in how much of an obsession it is to you and how much impact it does on your own Life then. i think talking about this to your Pdoc and therapist is a Good idea. i Hope things will Improve really soon for everyone. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @why98, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!