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Yea, after 33 years of marriage I finally had enough. I was on permanent disability at that point. I took the inheritance my mom left me & left him. A few years ago when I had a legal court case against him, it was the first time in 11 years I actually talked to him. I found out that he was sure when I left that I would be back with him in 2 years because I was in such bad shape mentally & physically when I left. I didn't come back to him in 2 years & actually being away from him I was able to heal mentally which fixed the physical too & I have thrived since leaving him & living life alone.
Sometimes we do feel trapped due to circumstances yet sometimes the leaving makes the impossible, possible. It is hard to know when we are in the middle of it all to know which way to turn especially after so many years together & a dependency is always there after so many years....that is just kinda natural.
In my case, leaving was the best thing I could have done....but we each have our own circumstances that must be considered & priorities made within our circumstances
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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