Meccorad, I wish you a lot of luck with this!

I guess the distinction has already been explained pretty well -- you probably want a therapist and a psychiatrist since most therapists don't prescribe meds. I guess some do, but I'm sure it's not the majority.

I figure the recommendation from someone you know (another health professional, etc.) is probably one of the best ways to start finding a therapist. I'd worry less about their credentials than how you feel about them when you first meet. I suspect you'll know during the first session or two whether or not you're a good fit. Even someone with less experience than you might like could well be a good fit. Don't rule anyone out based on years, specialties, etc! (Just my advice.) You never really know what will work.

My own therapist has a PhD. I went to him purely on a recommendation and only learned he had a PhD because it was on his business card (though later I learned more about his background). And I could tell you in all seriousness: I could care less what his background credentials are. He's just a good fit for me. If he had a masters or a psyd or any other kind of credential, it wouldn't change my feelings one whit. I think you're just going to know when it's right. You'll feel it. So get a recommendation, make an appt and see what happens! If you don't click, repeat the process. :-)

Okay that's just my advice....

Sidony