i think it is important to do what makes us happy as long as we don't hurt other people in the process or anyway else. i agree with the other wise and wonderful posters that health is important though. i personally prefer to stay thin myself although i am male so that may be different for me. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @whatever2013, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!