I'm actually starting to ignore when the drama starts, but we shouldn't have to be subjected to this constant verbal and emotional abuse. He thinks because he's our father he can push us around and say whatever he wants. But, heaven forbid if we push back, then we get the BS of "I'm your father". And that supposed to mean something to me from someone who has been an asshole on and off over the past few years. He's one of these people that thinks he can say whatever he wants no matter how hurtful it may be and people are supposed to just take it. He wonders why he has no friends, its because he can't keep his mouth shut.