So Sorry for what you're going through! Please Do not give up! Hugs. i don't think you are overreacting at all, it is unfair to lie to you especially about something like this. So Sorry. i'd suggest to be clear toy our Family and make them understand that they shouldn't lie to you about this especially since it is clear from what you wrote at least that things are still rocky between you and your husband. i'd say make them understand that if they keep this up you may be forced to not let them visit you if it proves necessary. Do you have joint custody with your Husband or do they usually stay with you? Hugs. i Hope you'll be able to sort this out with your Husband and Family. Please do not give up your Hope. Love. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @beachgurl01, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!