I agree that they're reasonable questions, and I asked many of the same ones to my current T fairly early on (either in initial phone consult or first few sessions). I mean, questions like "How would you describe your approach to therapy?" seem really basic and like something they'd just include on their website. I could see him being uncertain how to answer the ones about abandonment and transference, though he should have given *some* sort of answer, even just "We'd work through it if it became an issue."


If you liked him otherwise, maybe give him another chance? If you're unsure and have other potential options, maybe try those first?