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Old Aug 05, 2021, 02:15 PM
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I would feel the same.....however there may be a bigger picture to this than you are aware of.

The friend your ex was supposed to stay with might have had a change of plans in his life. (Though your ex could have stayed at a motel if he had budgeted for it).

The thing with having kids, would you have wanted your kids to have a miserable time because your parents were treating your ex badly? Sometimes we tolerate & treat people nicely even though we don't like them for the sake of the kids. He is their dad & they deserve to have fun when he is with them too.

All that said.....I would still probably have the underlying feelings you are experiencing but I would also try to look at a bigger picture for a better possible understanding & to also ease the bad feelings it caused inside of you.

It is good your kids had fun & that is the important thing
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