Hello,

I was obsessed with someone back in the early 2000s, for about 6 months, and then around 10 years ago I became obsessed with them again.

They are social, reasonably successful, attractive, and so forth. I probably think about them every day. In my mind at least they are a special person, although in reality there are people who are smarter, more successful, etc.

I probably spoke maybe five words to her, if that, when she was in my class at high school. Haven't seen her for 15 years.

So how do you get over someone who you obsess over? I thought about contacting her on Facebook but I think this would be a bad move, and one that I'll never be able to undo.

What are your suggestions?