omg this sounds so much to me as something similer that happened to us reacently, im so sorry that the woman bklamed you, she obviously hasnt got children
my thoughts are with you through these trying times, also get advice from a lawyer and make sure everyone thats been involved with you and the children can make statements to how they were being helped
good luck at court on tues
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