Actually Lenny, I am more than grateful for a man's perspective! Thank you so much. I know men are often on the receiving end of an unfair relationship, but I find they react to situations differently than woman do, especially those of us who are moms. It is so difficult for us when there are kids involved, and I think we stay alot of the time just for them.

My situation is very confusing at the moment, I am torn between hope and hopelessness. Marriage is never easy, and it is really hard when it seems one person has put in all the effort and done most of the compromising.