Confidentiality agreement updated and signed by both of us!
Session with L today went great. We didn't get a chance to do games, but we had a good time and laughed a lot. And my dog provided a lot of laughs too with kisses and chasing her tail, to claiming the couch. We did do questions too. One question was: if you could fail at an Olympic sport gracefully, which one would you choose?
L and I talked about me having a session with T. She agreed and was even going to suggest it. Even though we both think that the hurt stems from not protecting the relationship (it's really resonating/sticking), we agree that having a third-party who knows us both can maybe help both of us sort through it and help us find ways to move on. T is on vacation this week, so I'll know on Monday what she thinks.