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Old Aug 07, 2021, 01:19 PM
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Originally Posted by Britedark View Post
Hope, if you are confident that your husband's commitment to you is strong then I don’t think you have anything to fear from his ex. You love him and he loves you. His ex can try all she wants to be an extra spoke in the wheel, but there will never be room for more than two in your marriage.
I’m confident but not confident. He’s been unfaithful once. Not physically but emotionally. He is at present earning back my trust. I do trust he won’t be unfaithful again, but contact between he and his ex is just too much for me to bare. I don’t trust her intentions and I could see him potentially leaning on her regarding any issues in our marriage. The potential for her to become a rift between us too great.
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