Well out of boredom, I went to his place. He majorly hit on me! He sat next to me on the couch and rubbed my foot. I moved my foot! Then after we ate, I was sitting at the table and he was on the other side and he suddenly says, "Do you get horney?" I gave him a wide-eyed I-can't-believe-you-just-said-that look. He looked surprised and said, "I was just asking if you get horney... I thought we could talk about these things...."! Uh no. No we can't. We are not even dating never mind in a sexual relationship! I took it as his making a definite hard pass at me! I told him I would not discuss these things with him. He still acted like "Why?? You should be able to...."! Unfortunately, he had driven me to his place so he had to drive me home. I spent the drive in virtual silence. Got my purse together when we were almost to my car and he says, "Why are you so eager to get out of the car?" So yeah. I'm back in stealth mode so he can't contact me. I'm so glad he doesn't know where I live. I did that on purpose. And I'm happy that I did! Lesson learned on my part. He probably thought that just my visiting with him constituted an agreement to have sex! Ugh.... So I don't need a pro-con list. As of now, he's ghosted!

This is ALL I need after my last 2 weeks!