This would be a long post, but here is the foundation…my spouse is easily frustrated during stressful times and I feel that it’s emotionally abusing our children. Yes, I have talked to him about it…he had gotten on medication, but “it made him paranoid”. He says “I don’t whip the kids anymore”. No he doesn’t, but he still loses his temper and patience with the children rather quickly. And it’s just TOO rough. It’s gotten to the point where I’m convinced he’s only being “rough” with them when I’m not in the same room or present to see it happen. I noticed how my kids are different compared to his (I have only been in his life 4 years) and I believe it’s how he treats them. For four years I though it was the kids’ bio Mom, but I really feel that it is also him.

I’m at a loss. I’m very nervous and sad. I want to do what’s best for the children.

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