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Old Aug 09, 2021, 06:19 AM
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Originally Posted by Rose76 View Post
This contact from the ex-wife is 100% totally inappropriate. She's trying to hold on to him, in whatever fashion she can. You are justified in not trusting her.

Tell your husband to cut the cord. She is probably going to milk this cancer recurrance for all the attention she can get out of it. Her situation is sad, but clinging to an ex-husband is not the solution.
Thanks @Rose76, and I agree with you wholeheartedly! My husband denies that she is trying to hold onto him. She has a first ex husband, with whom she used to still speak while she was married to my husband. Whatever the case may be, I still think she's holding onto him and very inappropriately - maybe it's poor boundaries, or maybe it's something more. At least my husband is honoring my wishes and agreed to keep her blocked - thank goodness. If he didn't agree to this, then we'd have a serious problem. And he and I are trying to patch things up right now - the last thing we need is a third party involved.
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