I would request you to take a closer look at your motivation behind this action. Sometimes we provoke a reaction in others because we want to clear the air or because we perceive the other person isn't confronting an issue. Do you have a straightforward personality and like to challenge others? You may read the Enneagram 8 type personality and see if it resonates with you. If you are certain that this is not your personality, but a disorder, then therapy is a good course of action.