Oh I really feel that you will know when the time is right to discuss this very difficult topic. If you need more time, take it. Go at your own comfortable pace so in the end you still be that healthy person. (Although, I don't have a problem with taking meds, but if you don't want to end up going that route, you may need more time!)
I hope it all works out for you. I know there are things in my past that I would need to work on, but for the moment I feel okay and Im sticking with that for now!!!