I’ve always had a close relationship with my T, while my T has very good boundaries. I’ve always had obsessive feelings towards my T (non romantic). We are both female and she is 15 years older than me so I see her as like an older sister figure. I’ve been seeing her for 3 years. 2 years ago I asked her for a hug and she gave me one. I didn’t get the sense that she didn’t want to be doing so. I asked her 2 more times on different occasions and she agreed. She told me that whenever I ask for a hug she’ll give me one as long as it’s not too frequent. Then I started opening up about my feelings towards her. I then asked her for a hug and she said that we need to have strong boundaries now because of my feelings towards her and she can’t hug me. I felt so rejected. This just happened recently and I then decided to switch to a different therapist to work through my feelings towards her. But I can’t help but feel so rejected and hurt. Has anyone gone though something similar? And what did you do?