So Sorry for what you're going through! Please Do not give up! Hugs. i am afraid i must agree with the other wise and wonderful posters about doing what is needed. If he treats the children badly you need to keep them Safe. i'd say either make him understand that he needs to seriously Improve for real or else you may be forced to simply go away. i Hope you'll take the best decision possible whichever it will be. Please do update us if you want to if possible. Love. Stay Safe. Be Safe. Remember that i am here for you and i think many others Also. i Hope so at least. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @CrazyGracie, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!