Hey yall. My wife and I have been married for 25 years and a few months ago she said she wants to end things. We have four kids together - two grown and two still at home - and a few grandson. This is destroying me and will tear my family to pieces. We are not financially able to seperate so we still live together and noone in our family knows what's going on. She says she wants time away to be able to evaluate what she wants for the rest of her life and feels separating is the only way to do this. We have set up a new savings account that we are putting money into monthly to save up for her to leave. I'm not sleeping, not eating, and can not think about or concentrate on abutting else. I need real help in figuring out how to manage my life!