Hey one other thing about today... in the past I would have felt hurt and gotten angry at you when you said that stuff when we were talking about h's health. Thank you for trusting me to be able to handle the stuff you said. And you were right too btw. I talked with h and told him in pretty much the same words you suggested. And he said that's a far cry from his attitude a couple of weeks ago where he was still saying I reassured him again that we're in this together and I'll find recipes that he will still enjoy regardless of how limited his food choices might become.