I always thought my T had the perfect life. Successful career, loving family, wonderful husband, we’ll off…etc. and then 6 months ago she divorced her husband (it was her second divorce). Amongst other feelings it made me realize her life was far from perfect. Although she was my individual T, my wife and I saw her for couples on occasion. But now that she’s twice divorced I question her abilities. But I think for me it gave me a more balanced view of her. We all struggle with things, including our T’s.