So Sorry for what you're going through! Please Do not give up! Hugs. i agree with the other wise and wonderful posters that you do seem like a Good Friend based on what you wrote at least. It does seem like you're doing what you can to make sure he's still in your circle but it doesn't depend on you only i believe. Perhaps try to make him more involved if possible and to spend some more time with him but if he doesn't want to go then i am afraid there isn't much else you can do. Sorry if my post isn't really helpful but i Hope things will improve really soon for everyone. Please do update us if possible if you want to obviously. Please Do your best. Love. Stay Safe. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @eclairparty98, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!