Dear one, I've known you here for 5 years or so, and I've NEVER thought of you as a loser. Could school just not be for you? I haven't checked your profile, but if you're in college, then you might need to do some thing else for awhile--or if not, try thinking how nice it will be to be finished with school--at least by passing--so you can go into something you're more interested in. And get the word "loser" out of your vocabulary.