I'm not into labels, per se. Though it is nice to learn of a definition & know that's what you've always been, but didn't have the word for. I'm doing inner work & healing. Initially for past abuses & traumas. It's also helped me with other things, like orientation & identity.
As I continue to have better understanding, the following may change. This is where I'm at at this point. Agender, demi/sapio/pan/poly romantic (more precisely, affectionate), graysexual. I'm thinking I might be grayromantic as well. Since, I don't consider myself that romantic. I have moments. I'm really more about friendship. Especially with a strong intellectual & emotional connection. Affection means a lot to me also.