This has been a sort of common theme in my life, but it kind of concerns me because I don’t understand what it is or if there’s a reason behind it. Generally speaking, I can be excited about something, and have nearly obsessive thoughts about it, then suddenly hardly feel anything about it.
Anyone else experience something similar?
Basically, I don’t understand how something can feel like it really matters, then suddenly doesn’t, even when it does matter on a more objective level, as well as subjective.
I have felt like this about some relationships too, which has been a big problem and is actually the main reason I’m asking now. I just hate it. The relationships in question are more hypothetical at this stage but I’d like to know if this “thing” is potentially fixable or manageable.