So Sorry things are being hard! Please Do not give up! Hugs. i Hope the situation will improve really soon between you and your husband one way or another. Yes, do update us if possible. It is good that your therapist and advocate are also helping you out. Stay Strong. Love. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @Werewoman, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!