Does she wear mask? I think wearing one is for the benefit of other people, she needs to be wearing one to reduce the chances of you getting sick.

I wouldn't see a T if they refused to tell me whether they were vaccinated or not, I think that's awful and you have a right to know.

I was seeing my T in person with no masks all through last year, but he was tested twice a week in his other care job and I knew we were both extremely careful.