Personally I would and did last year as T continued seeing me in person throughout most of the pandemic (barring a few weeks here and there). But our circumstances are and were unique - I wasn't in much contact with anyone and neither was she at the time. Our relationship was strong, my mental health was poor and it was a decision we jointly made. No masks were worn.

It's a very personal decision and depends how worried you are about covid, your health etc. If you're happier wearing a mask then that's a good solution, especially if you'd rather not do telehealth.

I'd feel a bit uncomfortable if a T refused to tell me their vaccination status as well. Maybe she's worried about it being a political statement or something but you do have a right to know.