So Sorry this is going on also! Please Do not give up! Hugs. i am afraid i agree with the other wise and wonderful posters about limiting contact with her if she's not proving to be a good person. It sucks but sometimes it may simply be the best solution. i Hope things will improve really soon for everyone. Please do update us if possible if you want to obviously. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @Icedgem, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!