So Sorry for what you're going through also! Please Do not give up! Hugs. i agree with the wise and wonderful downandlonely and your sister about calling the cops if it happens again and also about a restraining order. i know you don't seem to have much trust in it but i think it may be worth a try especially if it gets dangerous since from what the lady at the counter said he can get violent. Please do what is possible to keep yourself Safe. i Hope things will improve really soon for everyone and that no one will have to deal with that guy again if he keeps stalking people. Love. Please Do Be Safe. Also update us if possible if you want to obviously. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @black-roses, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!