I would be bothered if T or L didn't tell me their vaccination status. We're all about honesty and openness, and we all feel that being transparent especially about the virus is extremely important.

I would see L or T in-person even if they haven't been vaccinated. L and I started in-person before either of us were vaccinated. We just took precautions: masks, hand sanitizers, social distancing, being cautious when needed to be in public, etc.

Even now with H's job situation, L and I are being extra cautious even though we're both vaccinated. She bought an air filter, the window will be open, we'll wear masks when within 6ft of each other, etc.

Imo, if a T isn't willing to share their status, they better act as if they have not been vaccinated (i.e. masks, etc.). Otherwise, it shows lack of seriousness and care.