I'm trying to think what I'm going to do about this friendship because I'm still feeling intense sadness and disappointment over it. What I want in a friendship is a positive person that lifts me up I just them to be honest to me. In this friendship it feels like he complains a lot and I just sit there like carrying the weight of his problems and like I told him to get help for it but he doesn't seem to want help or do anything to fix his issues. It's just frustrating because I have my own issues and like I have to put up with someone who doesn't seem to care about themselves it's just frustrating.