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Originally Posted by BethRags
My daughter has moved to New York to attend grad school. My husband asked her for her new address, but she said she would prefer not to give it to him because she no longer wants me to write to her. I had been sending warm and very "neutral" letters to her, small occasional gifts, and occasional cards. She's nixed that. No mom and daughter could be closer than my daughter and I were. She cut all contact after I was IP almost 3 years ago. I'm devastated. Writing to her by post was the only communication I had with her. Now I don't even know her address. I still don't know why she's so angry at me, only that her therapist encourages her to go "no contact" for whatever reason(s).
In all of my years of being a mom the one thing I never expected was that one of my kids would stop contact with me. My heart is very heavy.
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So sorry. That has to be so hard. You’d think a therapist would want clear communication and at least have her write why she is so mad. 
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