So last night I brought the subject up at my appointment. I told her I realized why she would have misunderstood my text and apologized. She told me I did not need to and she had left the last appointment understanding my intentions. I asked what she thought I meant by the text (not expecting her to be completely open). She was though.

She was open about what lead to her handling the situation the way she did. Most of which entailed her interpretation of what I meant and how it affected her as well as what was going on when she received the text which she believes led to her handling of the situation. She reassured me that none of it was my fault and then the texting boundaries and her reponse were totally her responsibility. We also talked about how she is human and, therefore, messes up sometimes.

I know some may not agree with how she handled the conversation. Had I never asked what she thought I meant, I KNOW she would have never have talked about her reactions. However, since I asked, she believes in being transparent. Honesty is also important to me so she not at least said something, it would have not been beneficial to out working relationship.