
Aug 25, 2021, 07:04 PM
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Member Since: Jul 2019
Location: Downtown Vibes, California
Posts: 15,701
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Quote:
Originally Posted by whatever2013
@ BethRags:
Sorry Beth. I'll butt out. I was being indulgent. Please forgive me!
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I didn't intend to be so harsh, and I'm sorry for that. For the first year of my daughter's estrangement I beat the ***** out of myself for having considered myself a "terrific mom" when obviously, I wasn't. It took a lot of communicating with others and doing a tremendous amount of self-searching to conclude that yes, I had been an excellent mom. My daughter can be selfish (she's not perfect, just as none of us are) and high-maintenance. She's also a super-terrific woman. No matter what she does to me, I will love her forever. I know now that if anything, I was too indulgent with her. But it's okay...it'll all work out some day - hopefully sooner than later.
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