Also I was in English class today and there was a class discussion about like relationships and how cultures don't accept other cultures. We were talking about how hard it is for a parent when a son finds a partner. I started to talk about my friendship with Ben and how he tells his mum things. On of the classmates commented that he probably had feelings for me and wanted to make it official that made me think about things differently. Now we're on break and I decided to talk to Ben after 9 days of no contact. I said "Hey Ben I'm just at Tafe I took sometime to think about our friendship and how I felt about you telling your mum things. I felt like I needed to think about what I wanted in life. I feel like we could continue on as a casual friendship. Though I'm probably not up to hang out a lot yet as I'm still quite busy and overwhelmed with things". Now that I understand why he did it I don't feel so unsure and confused as to what to do. I feel like maybe we could still be friends but more casual then before.