So Ben has invited me to his family party which is for his birthday but is about 6 days before and I don't feel comfortable going especially coz his mum and that is going to be there. I just don't want us to look more serious then what we are and I feel that friends are separate from family. So if he wants a party with his friends do it just with his friends maybe that's just how I feel. Anyway, I think I'm going to ignore the message or if he asks if I want to go to his party I'll just say I didn't get his message.