I've heard people say a permanent online romantic relationship isn't "real love".
Ok. Then by your reasoning.
It won't be real "polyamory" when I'm in love with two women whom I have never met.
And a 20 year old girl I have never met.
Don't worry if it's not "real love".
Then it cant be real "polyamory".

I'll be open.
Tell everybody everything.
I never do anything I'm not proud enough to tell the whole world about.