@Miss Laura:

So happy for you! I'm looking for some romance and sexual healing too (i'm a het lady too, not hitting on you). It gives me hope that you've found some for yourself. How old are you, if i may ask? You're an adult and sound real happy with yourself so i'll spare you the lecture about the risks of promiscuity since you already know them and just share your joy. I'm 55 and i worry that romance is just O-V-E-R for me. There's one guy in my support group that i am attracted to and he's looking for a partner too. So that's a possibility. But he's also really sick and probably poor so i might pass on him and wait until i can get into my senior's center and meet a healthier man who can keep up with me financially. Also, i have to be careful in the support group, not to behave overtly like it's a dating site. I'll just observe the guy for now. He said something really intelligent and original and educative and COMFORTING the other day so i feel he would be a good teacher (love learning) and emotionally supportive and he's got lush curly black hair!!!