So you were behind on rent and had to do what you had to do to manage, did your husband not contribute financially? He’d borrow money and not pay back and you had to deal with it. It sounds like he is a horrible useless partner.

Who cares if he showers or got a girlfriend. He sounds like bad news all around. Make sure you file for child support. Please be safe in regards to doing things for money. It’s dangerous. Protect your health.

You might need to go on government assistance to keep yourself and kids afloat. Be safe and good riddance to this dude